Monday, January 11, 2010

Showcasing the sistas on Monday nights-Let's talk about Pep and Fantasia for real


So I sat down for an evening of reality TV and decided to check out Fantasia’s new show, which I absolutely loved. Family drama is as real as you get, who doesn’t have family drama? I loved that she spoke on how she raises her daughter, and supports her family. But her brother.. he H-A-S G-O-T- T-O- G-O! I mean for real-tearing up the pool house all upside down like that, why we got to be so ghetto people? Hmmm…tsk tsk…anyway as the night progresses and I sip some left over Prosecco and enjoy crackers with red pepper hummus I overhear Jacque (Reid) on Let’s talk Pep (Peppa from salt & Peppa) new VHI reality show…Jacque mentions she might ask her ex to have a baby with her. I sucked my teeth at the thought~get impregnated and raise a child with some ex that isn’t right for me and I might have dumped for etc . anyway? I think not. And girlfriend Kittie.. I mean brotha was making some good pointers about investing and all, but on the very first date…..dag was this an interview? Truth is I would love to meet some of these guys the women were dating on the show. A run his mouth too much investment banker, I’m saying much better than a smoke too much herb alcoholic, right? So as I listen to girlfriend Jacque I wonder and remember the line from ‘The best Man’ when I think it was fine behind Morris Chestnut’s character who states, “Well she’s just a step away from lesbian anyway She’s the type of woman that doesn’t need no man”. So if a woman is truly holding things on her own and doesn't have to depend on a man for her financial needs she's the one that'll be calling up her ex to beg for him to donate his sperm one last time for a baby? The other thing that crawled up my skin-why so much strawberry tasting, tongue wagging, feet showing, and sexual intentions type convo on the first date? And hitting up a gentlemens club to ‘make it rain’ (Long sigh….) I mean was I still watching For the love of Ray J? These women on the show Let’s talk about Pep are in their late thirties I figure. Why do ladies have to express themselves with such a foul mouths? Gee, the older I get the more loose and unsettled I have to act? The hell with that.  No dude will be sucking these toes and make it rain having me rubbing up on some stripper pole on date#1 This all just makes me miss my mom, grandma, and aunties days when the old school lovin’ sort of dating was truly in. Well I was sort of looking for a 'women of color' version of Sex in the city. We'll see...
and another thing,
Is taking leftovers home from your date really g-h-e-t-t-o?

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